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You have been given tools to accept yourself or not. You can choose to accept parts and abhor other parts. The abhorring is the negative side of thinking, which can and will take you down a curvy road. Negative thoughts appear in all of us and the ones who will fair the best are the ones who learn which thoughts to propagate, which and who to let die on the vine.

How do you accept, and how do you know who and what to let die on the vine?

Breathe deeply, sitting quietly, thinking upon layers of independent thinking, crying to beat the band and all of a sudden it comes in rolling waves. NEVER GIVE UP. Never give up on yourself and or anyone else.

How do you now when you are done? Continue checking, go as deeply down inside of yourself to the center of your core, and feel the difference. When you hear the Ping-Pong dinging in your ears, perhaps that is the signal. Ask someone’s opinion and discard it. It is your opinion you are seeking and your opinion is to never give up and so therefore, you are never done. Close at times, but never, and remember never is a long, long time.

Keep up the courage, the enthusiasm, and the faith!

8 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Dina
    Jun 08, 2016 @ 13:21:13

    NEVER giving up!


  2. Patricia Rieffanaugh
    Jun 08, 2016 @ 13:34:57

    Great advice! You are very wise!!


  3. Sheryl
    Jun 10, 2016 @ 04:21:42

    Your advice is wonderful. I really like the analogy to plants – learning what thoughts to propagate and which to let whither on the vine.


    • Sheila Clapkin
      Jun 10, 2016 @ 09:43:55

      Ahh, sweet Sheryl. Thank you for the word whither! The lessons we learn all of our lives are so important. “Wither thou goest…” Should have, would have, Will. You are the 100 year old expert and I love you.


    • Sheila Clapkin
      Jun 10, 2016 @ 09:45:38

      Hey, Hey, Pat, you are the wise one. Thank you for sharing a comment as important as yours. Wisdom is usually hard won.


  4. Reene Reene
    Jun 10, 2016 @ 19:18:46

    you are becoming very introspect.  Reene


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