OAKLAND, BENICIA, SANTA ROSA, BRENTWOOD, SAN RAMON, SAN BRUNO, MILLBRAE

What? A trip with no photos, Sheila, how can it be? Sometimes you get so caught up in the moment. There is no time for the camera and this is the truth. When you forget your camera, I think you are really living in the moment, which is something I rarely realize I am doing. Do you? I am just kidding about no photos, but not many because as I stated, living in the moment takes front and center.

Oakland

The Oakland airport pick up at one airport and drop off at another is an expensive proposition. A much cheaper option saving us $369.00 is as follows:  You see, we flew into Oakland and wanted to pick up a car at the Oakland airport and drop the car off at the San Francisco airport. They charge big drop off fees if you secure a car from the airport, but drop the price considerably if you pick the car up at the city office. We took Bart bus from the airport, took the Bart train and departed at 19th , and then walked six of the longest blocks in the world.  It all sounded easy, sounded like a good travel experience and a good way to save quite a sizeable amount of change, so we did it. Dragging your bags down the main street of any town is the tough for a couple of old farts, plus we later found out we had been dragging our goods in a very tricky part of town. We found everyone to be friendly, helpful and accommodating. We got our car and took off North! I forgot to mention we took the Bart to pick up our car for $6.00, therefore, negating a $60.00 taxi ride. I tell you this not to show off that I am cheap, just travel happy, but actually  we got a taste of reality. Being an older individual necessitates perhaps for next time, a taxi ride!!

Benicia

Benicia was our first stop to see J. and her new digs. If you want a mini mansion with an affordable price tag and you want to live in the Northern part of California, buy here in this neck of the woods.

The points of historical interest in Benicia are numerous and varied, and they came alive as we toured the area. We attended an old-fashioned ice cream social at the Benicia State Capitol and Historical Park at First and G Street.  We walked further on to visit the glass blowing shop, went in and out of the “What-Not Shop,” viewed the Clocktower, ate in several nice establishments I would repeat when we visit again. We enjoyed walking from the town, down to the water’s edge.  The old town at the time, I thought was the quintessential little northern California town until I saw more of them. They each have their charm and have earned the title of quintessential little Northern California town.  Seeing more towns along the way did not change the quaint, old world charm as it mixed with new mix in Benicia. We enjoyed our visit and were especially happy to see J. and her family so happy and working so well together.

Santa Rosa

Santa Rosa has its charm as well. It seemed to me that there were several centers of town here. Each offered a different ambiance and each had it’s charisma and attraction as well. We attended a Bar Mitzvah in Santa Rosa with all meals paid for in advance.  The hotel we stayed in was so old world that our room had the same wallpaper I had in my room growing up. Exactly.  I do believe it was a reproduction, but all the same it was the exact pattern, lines curves flowers and color was matched to a tee. I made many childhood decisions looking at the flowers, lines and dots in that design. I was taken back to my room as a kid. I am very much the same in character and decision-making as I was then, only decidedly more mature and posses a much stronger determination as a person.  I think, I hope. The event was perfect in every respect. A great mix of people, a Bar Mitzvah family in earnest, a beautiful temple, lots of food and an abundance of love, and camaraderie. It was an honor to attend.

Brentwood: Rancho Ruby

Rancho Ruby in Brentwood, California

Brentwood is beautiful. There are two towns, one is the old town and one is the new. The new town has everything you need, want and more. Cousin D’s Rancho Ruby is situated in the Mt. Diablo Mountains with beautiful views and scenes all around it. D. has a beautiful home, full of family antiques, a turtle pond, dogs, two barns, and a grove of olive trees, and lots and lots of vistas that highlight mountain ranches and farms.  We ate, whiled away the afternoon with conversations, little mini journeys into the heart of the ranch and topped the evening off with a gigantic steak dinner. No, no, not D, she is a vegetarian.

Via San Ramon to San Bruno and Millbrae

Then, on to San Ramon to see properties of interest and a ride over the San Mateo Bridge to stay in San Bruno another lovely little Northern California town. The first thing we saw was the terrible devastation caused by the gas lines blowing up, catching so many families at their dinner tables in the hills of San Bruno. They have one or two homes beginning the rebuilding process, but slowing it down is the fact that they can’t decide who will pay for re-construction.

There is a special garden in San Bruno and it is due to the hard work and constant diligence of Cousin K. Even though it was raining, we were able to enjoy its beauty knowing that it grows more beautiful as the season progresses. Cousin L & K have a close relationship with Flora Grubb Gardens in San Francisco, a must visit when in the South San Francisco area. Many of the unique, exotic plants in K’s garden come from Flora’s. Take a look.

K & L's Garden in San Bruno

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Skip at Flora Grubb's Garden enjoying the boxed cactus.

Millbrae:

We visited Uncle M. at the Magnolia. Visiting the Magnolia Senior Living facility this time was different. If you want to read about the first time, the piece is called: As If Looking into a Distant Mirror.  This time the distance in possibilities has closed because I have passed along in age and stage. Not a great deal, but noticing the aging of the residents during the year has made a world of difference.  The residents I met on my earlier stay were walking along on their own, getting up and down, chatting, and their pain seemed at a minimum.  Although it is impossible to judge the pain one experiences for another, you can see physical signs of added pain quite plainly, and it is evident by the squints and grimaces on some of their faces when they sit or stand and the inching along when trying to go from place to place.  I noticed that many of the residents now bring pillow aids to put on their chairs making sitting more comfortable. For instance, last year there were only a few walkers and this year mostly all are using a walker, a wheel chair or some form of aided transportation.  The call to dinner and the opening of the dining room doors presents a line of people jamming the entry-way, made even more well-defined by the presence of the walkers.

After talking with several of the residents about the decline in their mobility, they say they don’t like it but have made peace with it, say this is a part of life, dream about their old homes, their independent lives and some even hope for a new romance, a change in the menu, a walk around the block and getting better so they can enjoy doing more things.

The next morning we headed for Tennessee.

SEE THIS MOVIE

See this movie, The First Grader. It is just simply wonderful. The First Grader is based on a true story and is set in a remote primary school in Kenya. A free education is promised to everyone by the new Kenyan government. The story revolves around the the newest applicant which causes quite a stir. Take some time and go to the movies!!

 

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Visiting my Mother and her Friends

Left to right: Merriam, Sofie, Rose, and Violet

Give me a moment so we can visit my mother and her friends. This photo was taken a long time ago. How long ago, I do not exactly know, but definitely in another century.  I bring this to your attention because perhaps you have photos of your mother and her friends, or just a lovely little photo of your mother, father, brother, sister, maybe one of you with someone you love. Find them and spend some time reminiscing. It is a positive thing to do. Do be aware that emotions run high when visiting memories.

I began to focus on the photo of my mother and her friends. I do not have permission to write about these women, so I will just call them by their first names. Left to right: Merriam, Sophie, Rose, (my mother) and Violet. They met in their early school years and maintained their friendships into very old age.  At this writing, Merriam is still alive, living in West Los Angeles in a retirement home. I wish I knew much more about each woman, but remember I was very young when I would meet up with them and true to form, young people do not know what to ask or say to grown ups; they just stand in awe, and grown ups forget to tell the little ones things they might treasure.

From my limited knowledge and memory of my mother’s friends:

Merriam was married to the most handsome man I had ever seen. She is a woman of valor. There is boldness in her as well as a strength and courage that has not diminished with age.

Sophie was a woman who possessed spunk and a zest for living. She was married to a lovely, handsome man with a huge handlebar mustache. He was dashing. She was adorable. Sophie was an honest, forthright, up font person.

Violet was spunky and was a family centered person. She remembered everything that was ever in her life. Violet will go down in my mind as the most brilliant woman of her time. She always had a smile and a personal note of recognition for everyone she knew. She had a special vibrancy and LOVED chocolate.

Rose, my mother, was diligent and fierce about the success of her children. She was moral, true and honest. She loved and adored my father, and her children. She was constantly trying to improve herself. She possessed a brave spirit and was dedicated to her family and friends. My mother was a best friend to everyone.

Take some time off of your busy life and grab a stack of old photos. They don’t have to be ancient, just older than today. Be prepared for a journey into yourself and enjoy it!

Spinola Bay, St Julians, Malta

Spinola Bay, Malta is part of St. Julian’s and is a lovely spot for a walk down by the water’s edge.  There are some interesting apartment-style developments, as well as some traditional Maltese houses along its quayside.  What I found  in this bay as a most special treasure are the traditional boats of the Maltese fishermen with exquisite bright colors and beautiful craftsmanship.  I think often about the images I photographed that day on the bay.  I want you to enjoy some of the photos because they glow in my brain and I keep thinking how lucky I was to spend an afternoon at Spinola Bay on a bright, sunny winter’s day.

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Highlights of Malta

MALTA

A view from the top of Valletta, Malta

 

Renee, Stan, Skip and I arrived in Malta several hours before the ferry from Libya.To date many thousands of people have come through Malta fleeing Libya.   It is amazing that we are in the hub of the world right now. All the world’s attention is on Malta and we are here. I will not dwell on the problem, because the people entering Malta for relocation are being cared for and treated with great expertise and compassion. My congratulations to Malta!  The Maltese speak English as their second language. It is compulsory during their school years. They speak French, German and Italian as well. There is a gentility here that is from the British influence.  The food  has been the best!  The other day for lunch a chicken breast was served and I made a big deal about ordering an extra dish of rabbit. The people in the restaurant were so happy we wanted to try it, they added it to our lunch on the house.  You know the tip at the end was rather large. Rabbit is good, really good, just like a skinny no fat chicken.  Does it taste like chicken? I think so, but the sauce was so outstanding I forgot to rate the rabbit. Everyone liked it. I wanted to try the horse meat dish, but time road away. Anyone know where I can get horse meat in Los Angeles?

Our delicious rabbit dish!

 

We spent the day walking lovely Valletta, a gorgeous city surrounded by beautiful harbors and side streets that slope down to the water.

Street sloping to the water in Valletta, Malta

We experienced St. John’s Co-Cathedral, a dazzling, dizzying explosion of carved stone walls and arches gilded with gold. This magnificent beauty was not expected because the outside of the cathedral does not give any indication to the breathtaking experience on the inside. A special gift of our visit to St. John’s Cathedral was the Caravaggio Painting of the beheading of St. John, the Baptist.

Inside view of St. John's Co-Cathedral

We walked to the top of Valletta and saw this view.

Next we drove to the town of Mosta and another church called Santa Marija and yet another miracle. During World War II a bomb went through the dome of this beautiful domed church. The miracle is that while three hundred parishioners were giving thanks to God when the bomb came through the dome and rolled around on the floor resting on the side of the wall, it did not explode. The miracle is that not one person was injured that day, miraculous.

I have to tell you that on this trip, Skip and I have seen the insides and heard the miracles performed inside the walls of seventeen churches and we may be off by a few more. Usually you hear, oh no not another church; is that all they have to show us is the church?  No, but each church holds a special mystery a special miracle, a special message, and no two are alike.  They have some architectural similarities, but that is where it ends. A number of churches have inlaid marble inscribed tombstones of famous Grand Master’s, knights, priests and well established families. The floors are so beautiful and in some cases they have carpeted a walk way for the churches most visited by tourists to insure everlasting enjoyment by all who want to come and see these works of art ages and ages from now.

17th church in the beautiful honey colored town of Mdina

At the 17th church in the beautiful honey colored town of Mdina, I said, “No, I just can’t go in.”  I asked our guide if this church had any special miracles attached to it and she said, “ No, but it is raining and I thought you would like to get in out of the rain.” The church did not look special in any way, except that it is beautiful as churches are to me and it is true, we were out of the rain. So I said to God, “How about stopping the rain until we get out of Mdina.”  It stopped raining until we left Mdina and another special story to tell.  By the way, Mdina is an awesome looking hill top city called “The Silent City.”  Very few people are still living there, so it is inhabited by tourists during the day and is nearly empty at night.  I tried to get a T-shirt there for daughter Dina, but sorry, honey, they do not make T-shirts with their city name Mdina on them.

We enjoyed a walk up to Dingli cliffs. The view is lovely and you can see another little uninhabited island in the distance. I know the movie and the myth of the Maltese Falcon, and while I did not see a falconer, we did see a hawk trainer.

Hawk and trainer

Lovely pose

Oops, I think St. Paul’s Church and Grotto in Rabat was very interesting and number 18 as far as churches go. The church is modest in comparison with some of the others, red and gold, but as far as miracles, being the 18th church visitation is the miracle for me. The grotto is very much what I would consider a cave. St. Paul is said to have lived there for three months while he lived in Malta.  It was very cold that day, but in the grotto it was a moderate, nearly warm in temperature. We offered a few coins to help with the upkeep of this site.

 

A lovely little surprise and gem is the Palace of the Grand Master’s in the middle of Valletta. It was once the home of the Grand Master, who was/is the supreme head of the knights. Originally it was St. John. The gems here never quit, but the room that held my attention for a long time and really I did not want to leave was the tapestry chamber. If I say the name Gobelin Tapestries, you may know this famous French company still in existence. Gobelin was commissioned, measurements taken and tapestries made especially for this room. They were donated by Grand Master Perellos in the early 1700’s.

http://www.eveandersson.com/photo-display/large/malta/valletta-palace-of-the-grand-master-state-rooms-gobelin-tapestries.html

No photos were allowed of the tapestry so I have included a web site.

Corridor of the knights

 

The Maltese Cross is an eight sided cross and is the symbol of the Knights of Malta.

The Maltese Cross

Each of the eight sides represent one of the nations that were part of the original  chapters of the order. The four arms of the cross are supposed to represent the four cardinal virtues: Fortitude, Justice, Temperance and Perseverance.

We LOVE Malta!

 

 

 

 

Gozo, Malta

GOZO

Harbor where the ferry to Gozo docks

There are three main islands that comprise the Maltese Archipelago. Malta, Gozo and very tiny island Comino where two brother’s and their cousin live.  It was a dry but rain was threatening  as we drove to the ferry to take the twenty-five minute float to Gozo, but by the time we walked onto the ferry, it started to rain.  It started with sprinkles and as the day wore on it became more furious. Hey, you are on a trip. You have come a long, long way; this is the only time you will see this island of Gozo, so we set about it in earnest. Gozo is 9 miles wide by 5, so it does not take long to go from place to place. All the homes and buildings are made from a honey colored limestone, so the facades are all the same color. It looks soft and soothing. Actually, the buildings look delicious.  When the stone is first cut it is soft, so many of the homes have carved balustrades around balconies and once they have been carved and set, they harden and will last for centuries.

The Maltese Islands were an interest of conquest because they are exactly in the middle of the Mediterranean Sea. Now, tourism is the main industry, but mostly on Gozo they are still farmer’s and men of the sea. Gozo is clean, green and fertile. Sixty percent is agricultural land. The countryside is terraced and ownership of the land is divided by stone walls, reminiscent of Ireland’s countryside walls.

Ggantija Temples

Ggantija Temples: They claim that these free standing temples are the oldest in the world, older than the Pyramids and Stonehenge. They were built around 3600 B.C. I tried for the entire time we visited this area to get a vibe from the past, a glimpse into any little pocket of time ready to burst and talk to me, but alas, nothing but cold stone, wind and rain. I made my heartfelt offering on the sacrificial alter and it was not a goat, or a little lamb. It is a hope for the future of humankind.

Next stop on our private tour was the Citadel. Walking the grounds in the hard rain was interesting because it is all uphill and the rain cascaded off of the marble and stone paths like a river heading for the sea. We stuck with it to get to the top for the glorious views.The early inhabitants were required by law to spend their nights in the Citadel because there were great dangers due to raiding pirates and tribes who would take the citizens into slavery. We noted many lookout towers in Gozo to protect the island as well.

View from the Citadel walls

We were delivered to a local old Gozitan farmhouse for an authentic Maltese style lunch and local wine. When we sat down a great wind hammered the window and the rain pelted down with a fury. The food was salty and the wine was not the greatest,it was cold, but we were in the countryside of Gozo, in an old farmhouse and we were happy. It was a happy house.

St. Ta' Pinu Basilica

After lunch we visited the St. Ta’ Pinu Basilica.  Madonna St. Ta’ Pinu has EVERYTHING to do with cures, real life saving miracles. Okay, this is why I came to Gozo, I am convinced. I didn’t know it then, but I surely do know it now. The church itself is lovely, but along all the walls of the corridors, and rooms are photos, thank you letters, and items sent by people who have thankfully been cured of their ailments. The walls are covered with wartime medals of honor, silver hearts, baby clothes, crutches, casts and all memorabilia of cures. I do not have words to tell you how moving this experience still is in my mind.  If all of these people believe in this saint’s ability to cure and have sent proof, rooms full of their belief in her curative powers, then, who am I to argue any of this, so I believe, too. I believe as well, that the power is in the belief.  I purchased very little on this trip, but I did buy little trinkets depicting the likeness of St. Ta’ Pinu and if you want one, ask, and if I still have one I will be glad to give it to you!  I am wearing a little bead bracelet with a tiny likeness of hope and cure plus, I feel ten times better than I have in years.  Now remember, the power is in the belief and I believe in the power and the cures relating to this belief. Imagine all of these cures and all of this power of belief delegated to St. Ta’Pinu residing in a hilltop Basilica on a little fairly remote island called Gozo. Best of all, now, I got in on it.

Lace Making

We visited lace making, wine and cheese tasting and the town square in Victoria, the new name for the capitol of Gozo. The ancient name is Rabat, an Arabic name.

Both Malta and Gozo have many traditions and words in their Maltese language that date back to the times they were occupied by neighboring countries. They switch from Maltese to English and back again all day long.

The law is there are no divorces, so choices have to be carefully made. No abortions and no cremations.

Something to be noted: Garbage is collected every day in Gozo as well as Malta. Lucky. They just set out their bags, recycling is optional at the moment and the trash will be gone in the morning. Also, on Tuesday’s and Friday the people buy their fresh fruits and vegetables. This morning is Tuesday and walking down the road we spotted a man selling vegetables and fruit to the local women from his truck.  You know I loved that scene. What no camera on hand? Skip’s Uncle Danny used to sell fruits and vegetables from a truck in Albany, New York almost a seventy-five years ago.

Gozo is beautiful and note the honey colored lime stone used in building.

Catania and Taormina, Sicily

Today was our walking tour of Catania and we awoke to a downpour.  It lasted throughout our entire walking tour.  Okay, so they ordered a bus for us, but we did much walking in the center of town, rain and all.  We went to an open air market, mostly meat, cheese and vegetables. Of course they had erected large umbrellas for their customers. Did you know that they have beautiful purple broccoli that is delicious and red oranges that make a deep tasting and hearty  juice. They turn these brilliant colors because  there is a 20 degree temperature difference between day and night. Catania is at the base of Mt. Etna which accounts for the temperature differences and the color changes.

Catania is beautiful and a wonderful city. The people are exceptionally warm, generous and gracious. The city is a gathering of many cultures past and present.

On our own free time, we did try to visit the Prince of Catania, who entertains visitors from all over the world from all walks of life.  We absolutely could not find the right building. Well, we will have to make an appointment for our next visit.  If you would like to host a meeting and or a banquet in his palace, he will oblige.

Our afternoon tour was to Taormina, a beautiful sea side village on the Ionian Sea.  Not only is the whole town beautiful, the main street charming, but it has a unique place of great interest which is the ruins of a Greek Theater. It is one of the most famous Sicilian monuments in the country. It was an honor to be taken there and spend time in this spot.  They still use this theater in the summer when evenings are warm and they invite top performing artists to perform. It is capable of seating 5,000 spectators. It is my favorite ruin and monument to date.

We did quite well in the rain today, but it is uncomfortable to get soaking wet.

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The Valley of the Temples and Mt. Etna

The Valley of the Temples and Mt. Etna

As you walk through the Valley of the Temples, just down from Agrigento you have an incomprehensible reverence for the Greeks who inhabited and worshiped in this area over 500 hundred years ago. They left some of the best preserved ruins in the world. Later, many years after the Greeks were gone, some of their temples were turned into churches, but the churches soon faded away and the original temples reemerged through weathering.  With just parts of the temples remaining, much of the splendor is left to the imagination.

I do not know why I picked Apollo out of the many God’s in mythological history, but I am certain Apollo, God of light and truth walked along a bit of the way with all of us. Possibly light, enlightenment, and truth are things I needed to explore in this valley.

We had a bit of a drive to Mt. Etna, so our guide said he could not really discuss the Mafia with us, but he did. Oh my, after exploring its ideology we found that it works all the way from the bottom to the top perfectly.  I’ll tell you my favorite story. When the elections are coming to fruition, the money from the bottom all the way to the top finances the candidate of choice.  Now, when it comes time to vote, the Mafia knows what you want, like a new motor scooter, a T.V., or an upgrade on the 90 day wait list to get needed medical attention. You get it and in return, you get an already filled in ballot. You take the marked ballot to the voting station. You get a blank ballot on which to vote. You turn in the already filled in ballot in the polling box and your responsibility is to turn in the blank ballot to your Mafia contact. So it goes. Having elected officials on your side is quite valuable wouldn’t you think?  They don’t kill anymore, so it is said, but you don’t say no to them because there are other consequences you will not like.  It works. Everyone gets what they need and want. How can you argue with what works and makes everyone happy?

The afternoon was spent climbing (in the bus) 6,500 feet into Mount Etna. We saw the effects of the 1984 pyroclastic flow. There was already a snow pack, so imagine white snow and black lava rocks. Beautiful.  Now imagine it starting to snow a little while you get out for a stop. This California girl had to stand out in it and then, it really started to come down hard. I was covered from head to toe in snow. Oh how wonderful, I thought, but it was not so wonderful for the driver of our bus.  The guide quickly gathered us and began to descend the mountain slowly and carefully.  We had no chains and we would have had to wait three hours for the snow plow, Visibility was altered.  Finally we crawled down out of the snow and came down, down, down, from Mt. Etna to the town of Catania.

The photo shows that the lava flow stopped just short of a school.

The Salt Flats

One of the main reasons we chose Sicily to visit is because my childhood and lovely friend Josie brought back a jar of sea salt from Sicily.  I enjoyed using it so much, I thought this might be the perfect place to pick up another jar of salt. Of course I could have bought it online, I am sure, but being there, being at the salt flats where they are drying salt from the sea is much more exciting, believe me.

 

This is where the salt extraction takes place. The extraction of salt from the water, as you can see is in varying stages. They pile it up and then they put a tile roof over each pile so that it will keep dry and continue breathing as it is drying out. You see two piles without tile roofs and those are ready to bag or jar for sale. I do not even remember the name of this little wonderful place, but the bus pulled up and a few explanations were made and then we were on our own. What a lovely little respite.

 

 

Up The Long Flight of Stairs to “The Nunnery”

Up the long flight of stairs to the “The Nunnery”

We entered the town of Agrigento with a specific task and that was to go to the Nunnery to visit with the Mother who still makes marzipan the old way.  First we began a climb up the stairs leading to the church; our guide knocked on a door of the lady who cleans the church. She is the key keeper and would let us into see the church built in the 15th century. She was home and said she would let us in. After we bought the Marzipan from the Mother, there was a huge knock on the door of the nunnery. It was the cleaning woman who has been doing this work for the nunnery all of her life waving the key to let us into the church. It is who you know the world around wouldn’t you say? The key keeper is a quintessential old world woman, who dressed and is living the part of a dying breed of woman from the old country with old country ways. I felt it was important to make more than a sight contact with her, so I hugged her and said, “Thank you.” She hugged back, kissed my cheek and asked something that did not sound like  English, so I said, “No,” which was followed by “Americano?” and I answered , “Yes.”  I am pleased with the personal contact. Getting and giving a hug to an old woman from a different place and time, gave me an elevated experience.We had both come a long, long way to meet each other.

Many, many times, an uncanny amount of times, when Skip and I have entered a church, we hear choirs practicing, Organ Master’s practicing, and today we heard the nuns practicing their singing. The voices produced angelic and very beautiful sounds, sitting down, eye shutting, mind wandering, praying kinds of sounds. It was an honor and a privilege to be invited into their sanctuary and it seemed like a true invitation from God.

The Mother who sold us Marzipan.

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